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Sometimes you know exactly what that âmoreâ is.
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Other times, itâs just an ache you canât quite name â a soul-stirring that wonât be silenced.
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Either way, if youâre feeling called to rise into a new version of yourself, into your next evolution of leadership, expression, and impact, this message is for you.
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And hereâs the beautiful truth:
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Itâs not about doing more.
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Itâs about becoming more of who you already are.
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Not more to prove. But more to become.
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If youâve been feeling a pull to step into your next level â your next version of self, leadership, or life, then stay with me.
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Because in this blog, Iâm going to show you how to activate the next version of you without hustling harder or becoming someone youâre not.
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The Wildly Awakened Woman doesnât hustle her way to success.
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She remembers her power.
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She reclaims it.
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And she lets it rise from within.
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Have you ever achieved something BIG â only to feel flat, disconnected, or like it wasnât enough?
You followed the rules.
You played the game.
You hit the milestones.
And still, a quiet ache remained.
This is the call to shift from ego to essence.
Letâs get one thing straight: the ego isnât your enemy. Itâs the part of you that formed to keep you safe, accepted, and successful in a world that often rewards performance over presence.
But the ego is loud.
It pushes you to prove.
To perfect.
To hustle for your worth.
The essence? It whispers.
It guides.
It already knows youâre enough.
When youâre operating from ego, your leadership can feel reactive, rigid, or disconnected.
When you lead from essence, you radiate power, presence, and deep clarity.
Thereâs a moment â quiet but undeniable â when you realise that second-guessing yourself is costing more than just time.
Itâs costing you your peace.
Your power.
Your presence.
And you know you canât keep doing it this way.
If youâre stuck in the loop of questioning your worth, holding back your voice, or stalling on the next step in your business or life because youâre afraid it might be the wrong oneâŚ
I see you.
Iâve lived it.
And this is for you.
Back in 2014, my life looked successful from the outside. Iâd climbed the corporate ladder, ticked the boxes, and built a career I thought would bring fulfilment.
But inside?
I was drowning in self-doubt, driven by pressure, and haunted by the belief that no matter how much I achieved, it would ne...
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In a world thatâs long been driven by hustle, hierarchy, and hyper-productivity, something is shifting.
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More people than ever are awakening to a deeper truth: Success doesnât have to come at the cost of your well-being, your relationships, or your soul.
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One where women are rejecting outdated models steeped in shame and performative tactics, and stepping into a new paradigm I call The Feminine Edge.
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Rooted in feminine leadership principles, The Feminine Edge is not just a concept â it's a movement.Â
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It's a return to a way of leading that integrates intuition, compassion, creativity, collaboration, and inner wisdom with clear vision, powerful strategy, and confident execution.
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Itâs rooted in feminine leadership principles â and itâs the antidote to burnout.
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Itâs the invitation to do business and leadership differently.
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And itâs exactly what the world needs right now.
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Feel Good Friday - This why I do what I doÂ
To make a meaningful difference and unlock big, bold dreams and the confidence to make them happen in the lives of the amazing people I have the privilege to work with.
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When Mel and I started working together around 5 years ago she was working in the NHS feeling stagnant and stuck and running on empty.Â
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She had this sensation she couldnât shake that there was more for her but kept pushing it down and âgetting on with itâ, which was easy on one hand because life was so relentlessly busy. Her spotlight always on everyone else and what they needed with little thought for herself.Â
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Then 'randomly' she stumbled across me by accident through a mutual connection and came along to a free event I was hosting called the Wildly Authentic Experience.Â
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It's also worth sharing it was the first time I had ever run an online challenge and I was pretty terrified with no real clue about what I was doing đ But, I was inspired to take a bold ...
In over 25 years of supporting entrepreneurs, businesses and their leaders to grow and transform, Iâve come to believe with every cell of my being that:
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And I donât mean the type of growth and transformation you get from attending a course or learning new strategies and tactics. I mean the type that asks you to go deep within and get to know yourself intimately.Â
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The type of growth that supports you to unravel all of the old stories you tell yourself that keep you playing small in subtle and sophisticated ways.Â
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The inner work that requires you to grab your scuba gear because we are going to go DEEP.Â
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Yes, it can feel pretty terrifying to lift the rocks that have been carefully placed around your heart for protection to see what is living underneath in the darkness, but oh my, is it a liberating and empowering experience.Â
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Because as you clear away the debris of the past that has aimed to protect you, but ultimately kept...
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You love your business, (and if youâre like me!) it feels like your first child. You honestly couldnât be prouder of it. Still, between the endless to-do lists, constant plate spinning, and the never ending responsibility of holding it all together, you barely have time to breatheâlet alone enjoy the life youâve created.Â
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You have big ambitions to grow your business even further. But right now, you just canât find the time or the headspace to do the fun stuff like strategic thinking and experimenting with new offers and services as you are too busy wading through treacle in wellie boots filled with rocks.Â
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Look, I know you know how to succeed. Youâve already proven you can build a successful business, but how do you succeed in a way that lets you really enjoy your life? If only you didnât feel so exhausted from juggling it allâyour business, your f...
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Sound familiar? Running a business while juggling the demands of family life can make it feel like an impossible balancing act with burnout lurking around every corner.
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If youâve ever felt like youâre carrying the weight of the world on your shoulders, making every decision yourself, and struggling to delegate because no one else can do it quite the way you canâyouâre not alone. The constant overwhelm can leave you feeling exhausted and disconnected, both from your business and the people who matter most.Â
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But what if there was a way to grow your business with ease, reclaim your time, and confidently step into a leadership role without the constant stress?
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In this blog, weâll explore the four key business growth leversâpositioning, profit, process, and productâthat will help you streamline your workload, increase your ...
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The pressureâfrom others, or even from yourselfâto constantly perform at your best?Â
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The overwhelming sense that you always need to be âon,â never showing weakness, and certainly never admitting that sometimes itâs impossible to do it all?
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Itâs exhausting. Yet, you keep pushing through. After all, youâre at the top of your game as a business owner, or an executive leader. And, often the expectation is that youâll never slow down. But inside, it feels like you're teetering on a precipice just waiting for it all to come crashing down.
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Underneath the surface, feelings of resentment can creep in. You struggle to focus. At times, the work that once brought you joy now feels like an obligation. You find yourself spinning on a hamster wheel, with no clear way out, resigned to riding this roller coaster as long as you can.
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As someone who has experienced burnout more than once, which ultimately led to my breakdown in 2014, I know only too well how this combin...
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On a scale of 1-10, how well does your business currently hit those measures?
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Perhaps, youâve lost faith in this even being possible?Â
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So often, the realities of running a business are filled with confusion, overwhelm and a roller coaster of highs and lows as you navigate fluctuating cash flow and constant change in the world of sales and marketing.Â
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Many of us aim to hit 6-figures in revenue as it feels like a significant milestone that will not only give you the financial reward you worked so hard for but also validation you are doing it right.
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And isnât that what we need on the days when it feels like we are pushing treacle up a hill!
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It can be easy to get swept up in the idea of having a successful, 6-figure business and channelling all your energies into what seem to be tried-and-tested methods you might have foun...
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